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| John C. Mayoue practices in family law matters, specializing in complex and difficult cases. |
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Wednesday, May 31, 2006
Unmarried Couples May Get Rights Under British Law
Last week, we discussed the possibility that the impending divorce of Paul McCartney from his wife Heather Mills may prompt a wider acceptance of pre-nuptial agreements in Great Britain. Now comes word that unmarried couples in Britain may soon have benefit of another "relationship contract" widely used here in the U.S.: a cohabitation agreement.
According to the London Times, the British Law Commission - which advises the government on how laws should be reformed - plans today to issue a 370-paper on various ways co-habitating couples can have similar claims on property as are now enjoyed by married couples. In other words, couples who are living "in sin" - whether they are heterosexual or same-sex - would be able to seek support payments or a share of the property the couple amassed together should the relationship end.
In the United States, it is increasingly common for co-habitating couples to have an agreement - preferably in writing - on exactly what should happen if one of them dies or the couple splits up. Ordinarily, co-habitating couples do not have any legal protections. Co-habitation agreements, however, can specify the rights one partner has to the other's property in the event of death, or outline what financial support a partner may be entitled to if the couple simply splits apart. Co-habitation agreements are especially useful among same-sex couples, since they are specifically excluded from marital benefits by law.
However these benefits have never been available to citizens of the United Kingdom. The Law Commission's report is being issued now so that public comment can be gathered that would shape any bill that goes before Parliament. It is expected that conservatives and religious leaders will have strong exceptions to any law seen as "rewarding" couples who "live in sin."
I look at this, however, as a positive development - not only in the U.K., but also here in the United States. Britain at least appears to be joining the U.S. in recognizing the modern reality of relationships and preparing its legal system for that reality.
It is simply a fact that more and more couples live together without benefit of marriage. These relationships are often stable, emotionally satisfying and can last as many years - if not more - than a marriage. These relationships, like marriage, often end - and just as in a marriage the end may leave the partners emotionally and financially devastated. This is particularly true if the relationship ends in one of the partners' dying, since many relationships are generally built around a single breadwinner.
It is only right that couples in such relationships should be able to formalize their relationship in some way and to have that relationship recognized and protected by the law.
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Wednesday, May 24, 2006
Sir Paul's Divorce May Help British Pre-Nups Take Hold
If anything good can come from the breakup of Paul McCartney's marriage to Heather Mills, it is that more people in Britain will start thinking about something many Americans have already considered - a prenuptial agreement.
I am a big proponent of pre-nups, but not for the reason you might think. I believe prenuptial agreements (and their cousins, post-nuptials) can create a stronger marriage because they force couples to take a mature look at their new financial and legal relationship.
Sir Paul, it has been reported, was offered a pre-nuptial agreement before his marriage to Ms. Mills - in fact, some reports have said that his children insisted on his signing one, but the former Beatle declined. Some people believe the lack of a pre-nup could entitle Lady McCartney to half of Sir Paul's pounds 825 million estate (that's over $1 billion in U.S. dollars), but that isn't true. She's legally entitled to a share of the marital estate created during their four-year marriage. Since most of that would have been created by Sir Paul's artistic endeavors, her share is expected to something less than half.
Even if Sir Paul had signed such an agreement, pre-nuptial agreements are not legally binding in the United Kingdom; judges may or may not decide to honor their content depending on the couple's situation, the interests of any children and the grounds on which the divorce is to be granted.
Still, the speculation and discussion on whether Sir Paul should have taken this step has got a lot of people thinking about pre-nups. In fact, they had been thinking about them beforehand. According to the Manchester Evening News, some 300,000 couples in the United Kingdom will get married over the summer. In Leeds alone, one law firm has seen a rise in pre-nups during the past year.
Does that mean that more couples in Britain are getting cynical? That they expect to get divorced?
Not at all. I think it means that more and more people in Britain want to control their own finances and make decisions on how their wealth should be distributed, not only in the event of a divorce, but also in case a spouse dies or the couple's financial situation dramatically changes (for better or worse) during the marriage.
Just as in the United States, it is ultimately the law - and that means a judge - who will decide which property belongs to each spouse alone and which of their property is commingled into the marital estate. While the couple may have a clear idea as to which is which, the judge may not share their opinion.
In the U.S., many people marry later in life, after they have accumulated considerable personal property, either through purchases or inheritance. If that property is mixed into the marital estate, then it is subject to division according to the law of whatever state in which the couple were married. When the marriage ends, the estate will be divided - but a marriage doesn't always end in divorce.
If one spouse dies, then the law will control what is and isn't personal property. A spouse who has inherited an ancestral home may intend that home bequeathed to his family; yet the family may lose that home if the surviving spouse has an interest in it through the marital estate. A pre-nuptial agreement could protect the family's interest.
I have found that many couples realize that their marriage is not only a romantic union, but also a legal relationship. It only makes sense to realize the legal and financial implications of a marriage and to take prudent steps to prevent a future adverse legal ruling. The rise of prenuptial agreements in the U.S. reflects, I think, a growing acceptance of this fact of life.
Apparently the same kind of realization is taking hold in other parts of the world, especially in the U.K. There have been several proposals of late to make such agreements legally binding, but no one can say when that would be.
Here in the U.S., acceptance came slowly but surely. As more and more courts came to accept them, eventually there came a consensus among judicial jurisdictions as to what conditions and protections should be built into pre-nups. I think the pattern in the U.K. will be basically the same; after all, our legal system is based on theirs.
Should that happen, I think that more people will be entering marriage with an advantage, since they would have already settled many of the financial issues that otherwise might lay dormant, ready to explode at any of the rocky moments any marriage can have.
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Viagra Helps Husband Defeat Wife's Divorce Claims
When one spouse wants a divorce and the other doesn't, things can get very messy. To prevail in a contested divorce, one spouse must prove a legal reason - "grounds" - and that means they must produce evidence that supports a claim of, for example, marital infidelity, or mental or physical cruelty.
In the messiest of these cases, a judge may not have much more evidence than the conflicting oral testimony of the spouses. But in one Westchester, N.Y., case, it was an oral medication that tipped the scales of justice in favor of a man who is fighting to stay married to his wife.
In a case styled C.W. (the husband) vs. G.W. (the wife), Westchester Supreme Court Justice William J. Giacomo found that the wife's claim of constructive abandonment- one partner's denial of sex to the other for a year - was disproved by the husband's evidence that he had taken, and presumably successfully used, the drug Viagra.
The W's were married in 1982 and have two children; she commenced divorce proceedings in January 2005 with two claims of constructive abandonment and one claim of cruel and inhuman treatment.
In testimony, Mrs. W. told of unromantic vacations and unreciprocated romantic overtures. She also described that after her husband's radical prostatectomy he had taken Viagra "on occasion" but that the couple had not had sex since July 2003.
But Mr. W. - who objects to the divorce for religious reasons - fought back, saying the couple had made love at least once, seven months before she filed her complaint.
"In support of this contention, defendant testified that of the four-pill sample of Viagra 100 mg. given to him by (his physician) and the 10-pill Viagra prescription ... filled in July 2003, six pills have been used since April 2003," Justice Giacomo wrote.
The court admitted that while this evidence was less than incontrovertible proof, it was at least more credible than Mrs. W's verbal testimony. Therefore, the court dismissed all three of Mrs. W's claims.
Mrs. W. is planning to appeal.
This is a pretty unusual case, given that spouses don't usually contest a claim of "constructive abandonment" - or, if they do, they don't have evidence any stronger than their own say-so. In states like New York, which does not have a "no fault" divorce law, a claim of constructive abandonment can be used by spouses who mutually agree to a divorce and want a simple way out of the marriage.
When couples divorce in non- "no fault" states, it often means they must air out their dirty laundry in public or get involved in convoluted (and expensive) legal struggles to prove their grounds for divorce. A claim of "constructive abandonment," however, can be an "escape hatch" of sorts. It allows both couples to admit that they haven't had sex in a year, but without having to admit reasons why that may be even more embarrassing: such as the fact that one of them has been unfaithful, or physically or mentally cruel.
Some so-called "defenders of marriage" want to eliminate "no fault" laws in other states, reasoning that doing so will reduce the divorce rate. It just might, since it would force couples into revealing what could be very embarrassing facts about their relationship which could cost them their social or professional standing. And even if shame is not a factor, a couple might still be intimidated by the thought of spending a small fortune to meet the legal standards required to prove a specific grounds for divorce.
This is wrong-headed in my opinion. These "defenders of marriage" should be thinking about the quality of the relationships they want to save. If there is a marriage in which one spouse has been unfaithful, and the other spouse is more embarrassed by that fact than the infidelity itself, then it seems to me that the marriage isn't worth saving. And it seems downright cruel to make unsuitable couples remain married simply because they cannot afford the legal expenses necessary to prove the grounds that support their claim for divorce.
That's why it is good to have alternative grounds for divorce, such as constructive abandonment. But if modern pharmacology can provide one spouse with evidence to close even that "escape hatch," then all couples face the prospect of being legally sealed into a marriage that exists only in the legal sense.
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Monday, May 08, 2006
The TomKat Pre-Nup
I think we can safely say that Tom Cruise does not have a good track record when it comes to marriage. That's why it is good to hear that he and Katie Holmes have signed a pre-nuptial agreement that provides a trust fund for their newborn daughter, even if the couple never actually get married.
According to a report in the Daily Mail, Cruise has offered Katie a prenup that guarantees her at least $41 million, in addition to the $10 million trust fund to be estabished for their daughter, Suri. Should the couple marry and later divorce, Katie will receive an additional $18 million, the Mail says.
The newspaper further reports that hammering out this prenuptial agreement has been the major stumbling block in the couple getting married; in fact, the paper says, the negotiations over the contract made it impossible for the two to get married before their daughter was born.
But here's the kicker - the reason why the prenup talks were so long in coming to fruition is because of the hard line established by Katie Holme's attorney -- her father!
Good for Papa Holmes! Tom Cruise has been married twice before: to Mimi Rogers for about three years and to Nicole Kidman, for about 10 years. Both of those relationships ended in divorce - and after Cruise had gotten involved with other people. Any lawyer, much less a father, would have to recommend a pre-nuptial agreement in such conditions - especially when Miss Holmes has her own acting career to think about, not to mention a child.
The Daily Mail reports that the relationship between Miss Holme's father, divorce attorney Martin Holmes and prospective son in law is, well, chilly. In fact, the whole Holmes family have been reported to be skeptical of the relationship, especially since she has abandoned her Catholicism for Cruise's religion of Scientology.
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Tuesday, May 02, 2006
Study Shows Devastating Effects of Divorce on Finances
Researchers have found what most divorcing couples only discover too late: divorce can have a devastating effect on personal wealth.
In fact, it can cut your personal wealth by an astounding 77 percent.
Researchers at Ohio State University's Center for Human Resource Research surveyed 9,000 scientifically selected people to produce some of the best evidence we now have of the financial impact of divorce.
The scientists found that divorce reduces personal wealth by about three quarters compared to that of a single person, while being married can almost double comparative wealth (a 93 percent increase). What's more, the researchers found that individuals undergoing divorce can see their income drop precipitously even before the divorce is final.
As for married couples, the studies find that the increase in wealth is far more than you would expect from couples simply co-mingling their assets.
The findings appear in the current issue of the Journal of Sociology.
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Anna Nicole Wins in the Supreme Court
A unanimous U.S. Supreme Court on Monday said that Anna Nicole Smith - former Playboy model, actress and all-around celebrity - can continue her battle for a share of the estate of her late, nonagenarian husband, settling a turf battle which had enveloped the courts of the sovereign state of Texas and the United States.
What the ruling means, according to legal analysts, is that Miss Smith (known in court documents as Vickie Lynn Marshall) will now get another chance to get a share of the millions she claims is hers; money that the son of tycoon J. Howard Marshall has been working for almost a decade to keep from her .
This whole case has received more publicity than it deserves, starting back in February when Anna Nicole attended the oral argument of the case. Although the U.S. Supreme Court is no stranger to cameras and crowds, the cases that mostly get attention involve issues of great social consequence, like abortion or prisoner rights. But when Anna Nicole showed up for her Constitutionally guaranteed day in court, the plaza around the venerable court building was swarming with celebrity seekers and Hollywood paparazzi, most of whom probably had no idea where the court building is, so used are they to hanging outside swanky Hollywood hotels and restaurants.
The publicity may not be deserved, but the legal issue at the core of the case is interesting - to what degree, if any, should federal courts become involved in probate matters? Although none of the media coverage of this case has looked at this issue (mostly the coverage has focused on the battle between Marshall's heirs) the court's ruling is worthy of some attention. As it turns out, the federal courts can overrule a state probate court's jurisdiction in extreme cases - and this case was one of those extremes.
When Anna was 26, she married the 89-year-old Mr. Marshall, whom she had met in the very romantic setting of the strip club at which Anna then worked. Although some people seem to doubt her, Anna has always claimed the relationship to be affectionate and nurturing; not the stereotypical union of golddigger and gold-diggee. However, the marriage was short and when Marshall went to his reward, Anna was left unrewarded for her affections in Marshall's will, which left the bulk of the Texas oilman's $1.6 billion estate to his son, E. Pierce Marshall. Anna claimed, however, that Marshall had intended to provide for her with a catch-all trust and both Pierce and his young step-mother exchanged nasty comments that found their way into the newspapers.
While Marshall's will was tied up in Texas probate courts, Anna Nicole - now living in California - filed for bankruptcy. Pierce involved himself in those procedings, accusing Anna Nicole of defeaming him with public accusations that he had resorted to forgery, fraud and other shenanigans to separate her from his father's money. Eventually, the bankruptcy court sided with Anna Nicole, awarding her $475 in compensatory and punitive damages; an amount later reduced the award to a total to about $44 million (plus an equal amount in punitive damages) by a federal district court.
But when the case made its way to the Ninth U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, the appellate court overturned the lower courts' ruling, saying that the proper place for the case to be decided was in the state probate court. That court, by the way, had ruled in March 2001 that Anna Nicole was entitled to nothing.
In her majority opinion, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg acknowledged that the "probate exception" generally gives state probate courts sovereign authority to oversee wills and the administration of estates. However, Justice Ginsberg wrote, this case was different because of Anna Nicole's claim that Pierce had wronged her by trying to cheat her out of the old man's estate.
That kind of dispute, Justice Ginsburg said, better belongs in a federal or state trial court, since probate courts possess "no special proficiency" in handling issues like the ones raised here. So, the case is headed back to a federal court, where Anna Nicole has already provided evidence that her allegations of fraud are valid. Given the history of this long-lived case, however, the only thing we can be sure of is that the final resolution may be months, if not years, in coming.
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